He is speaking about Emotional Sobriety but it isn't just for alcoholics or addicts, it's for anyone who is filled with emptiness, unhappiness, fear, self-doubt, self-hate, and it rocks. Yes, it is an hour long but it is totally worth it.
I hope you enjoy it as much I did and remember to love yourself! You're worth it!
Tom B. Jr. Emotional Sobriety
Oh, if you missed my post the other day on my other blog I made a wicked cool announcement.
I'll be here in the morning but this afternoon...not so much, so enjoy your weekend everyone, I know I will and if you have plans, I want to know what they are!! Are you partying? Spending time with the family? Working around the house? What do you have in store?

Wow this may be the shortest post you've ever done. Not that I'm complaining, That sounds like it's a subject so very close to your heart, and would be close to mine given how emotionally unavailable I seem to think I am. I don't really have any plans for the weekend myself, I never really make plans.
ReplyDeleteI know right, Mark! I can't believe how short this post was and yet it covered so much. I wrote it after I listened to the gentleman speak and still feeling all sorts of emotions whirling around inside me. I think you would really take a lot away from it. As we like to say, take what you want and leave the rest.
DeleteNo plans for the weekend? I'm not sure what mine are just yet but I know they will be fun, my son is coming home from college!!
No offense, Elsie, bu I think I'll pass on the emotional S&M. Hell, I cry enough as it is. This week it's because:
ReplyDelete1: I "rubbed" my wife's car with my truck in my garage. Blue and white don't make a recees cup. 2: Youngest daughter just got driver's license - now it's time to add a driver to my insurance. 3. Said new young driver pointed out the car she shares with her sister has issues that are not just annoying, but dangerous. Total repair bill - $638....
So, maybe next week I'll watch the hour long presentation and enjoy a good cry......err...probably not though. LOL.
I can't wait till your book comes out. Will it have pics??? :)
You suck! I can't believe you don't want to cry! It won't make you cry, just me. I'm the emotionally messed up one ha ha ha
DeleteThis was such a dude explanation - you didn't "hit" her car, you "rubbed" her car. Such a man. I dread the day my Peanut gets her license and it isn't that far away, just a few years. Gack! So sorry to hear about the repair bills, that is just not fun at all in addition to the paint repair you better be making.
I can't wait for my book either! Oh, wait, I have to write it first. Sure, it'll have pictures - of the beach, flowers, but not of me. ha ha ha
Hope you're having a nice weekend with the family, Elsie!
ReplyDeleteIt's going to be a great weekend with the family!
DeleteJust spending time with my man who got home last night and leaves on Sunday morning. Probably do some more crafts for my show in 2 weeks. We woke up to snow today. :(
ReplyDeleteYea for spending time with your man, JoJo! Always a wonderful way to spend the weekend. You? Crafts? No way! If I somehow miss it, good luck at the show. And snow, GROSS!!
DeleteI'm going to check this out Elsie but probably not until later on when I get the chance to really focus on it. I'm not sure if it's going to make me cry, I've read some literature like that before and even attended a GOALS course as you know and I'm a hard nut to crack, I could do with this being really good and powerful though, I'm bookmarking it to listen to it later.
ReplyDeleteooh, a hard nut to crack, huh? Now, I really want you to listen to the whole thing, without any distractions and tell me if you tear up at all. Not because he tells any type of sad stories because he doesn't but because if you identify with any parts of it, it will hit home and hit your heart. I remember your GOALS course and I don't know if it's anything like that because it's done with a lot of humor (and a bit of cursing lol)
DeleteDamn it! Where is the rant?
ReplyDeleteKeeping making me wait at your plant
But at least it was a short post
So I don't have to waste any time at your cost
For making me wait
For you to go irrate
Love myself?
The cat can't do that at his shelf
He is snip snip
Nothing there to grip
But this weekend we are at nannies shore
Chasing all the other cats and biting the tail of the mutt as we explore
Will give it a view
Inbetween doing tax returns, I know ewwwwwww
Figures the cat would go that direction when I tell everyone to love themselves - pig - I hope the dog got you good this weekend. You deserve it!
DeleteThe rant was changed up a bit after clarification from the IRS. It was the preparers fault and now I'm really ticked off! You'll see it at Dan's shore soon.
Ha ha ha! You do the same as my dad used to do. I don't envy you one bit! I hung out at the beach while you were stuck inside crunching numbers!
hmph to that, I hope the canadians triple on your beach this year and there is no room or food hahaha hey it is a form of loving ones self.
Deletenice...i am laying next to my youngest who is not feeling well so i cant play the talk but will listen to it tomorrow as it sounds like a key topic...
ReplyDeletetomorrow i am going to comicon with my oldest...woot....sadly i am not dressing up but will def be scoping out the fanboys that do go in costume...ha...they are a little nuts....smiles.
Comicon? Now that rocks! I hope there is a rhyme about it with a picture to go along with it. To bad you're not dressing up, that would have been fun to see! With the work you do, I'm sure this would be a good listen and I fixed the link too, thanks to Anne's comment!!
DeleteI will check out the link dear ~
ReplyDeleteI am just here, cleaning up the house ~ We hope to visit the bazaar/market if the weather is good ~
Enjoy your weekend ~
Cleaning? Boo! Hiss!
DeleteA bazaar/market sounds much better than cleaning and I hope the weather didn't prevent you from getting there.
I hope your weekend went well!
I'm just writing this weekend (duh) and fighting off a cold. I refuse to get sick! Blah.
ReplyDeleteI'll check out the video later. I'd like to hear what he says. :)
I am getting ready to sit down and do some writing right now. I hope yours went well. I also hope you are winning the battle against the cold!! Feel better.
DeleteI'm spending my time playing with the Hubby, painting figures and hanging out with the Spawn.
ReplyDeleteI clicked the link but there is nothing with this mans name on the list of talks.
Your figure looked awesome, Anne, as always. I hope you got in plenty of play time with the Hubby and plenty of hang time the Spawn. We got to the beach with the dogs two days in a row. W00t.
DeleteI fixed the link! Thank you for pointing that out. =)
The Spawn is going off with a friend for Spring Break. Is your son coming home?
DeleteSweet! Spring Break is going on right now and my son is home until Sunday morning unless they call him back early which may happen. He isn't sure just yet. I hope the Spawn has/had fun!!
DeleteMy weekend was spent blizzarded in, going stir crazy, wishing for sunlight and bike rides and walking the dogs. So by default your weekend already had to have been better than mine.
ReplyDeleteThat sucks ass! What sucks ass even more is when I tell you we went to the beach. Sure, we may have been in jackets and jeans but man, it sure was nice to be in the sun and on the sand with the dogs!! So, um yeah, my weekend was way better...sorry for your snow!
DeleteI spent my weekend looking at a smashed up 2011 Dodge Journey and avoiding eye contact with police officers! Other than that, things are fine!
ReplyDeleteMy poor, ridiculously expensive car!
You want details you'll have to email me!
DeleteOh no!!! That sucks! I can't even begin to imagine what happened but I'm about to find out....
DeleteVery short. So what.... I hope you're oing fine, Elsie. :)
ReplyDeleteI figured I'd be nice for a change and only make the post long for those who wanted it to be long! And, looking below, it seems you're not visiting my friend! What's up with that, Blue? ha ha ha
DeleteHi dear Elsie how are you?? Im with headache today, maybe ii was a little cold to swim in the pool, but I needed, anyway hope be better tomorrow, huggss toyou!
ReplyDelete(Psat Elsie the blue man dont visit me I dont know why:()
I hope you are feeling better today, Gloria!! Many healing hugs headed your way!! I can't even think of swimming today, it's so ugly outside.
DeleteWhy isn't Blue visiting you? I'm going to give him a hard time just for you!!
Thanks Elsie:)
DeleteTalk you later!
Hope you had a good weekend, it's fecking snowing here.
ReplyDeleteI had a great weekend because I got to get out to the beach twice! The first day was cold as hell but the second day, not to bad. Much better than the snow you're having!
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